Tuesday, May 18, 2010

Type A, B, C, D

When you are a high profile or public figure, many people would want to know about your stuffs. When you are high profile and a hated figure, many people will try their best means to try to harm you.

Singaporeans are well known for being KPO. I am also Singaporean and I'm proud to have this trait in me. But I believe there are four types of KPO Singaporeans.

Type A: Those who want to know things and keep quiet after knowing.
Type B: Those who want to know and start telling the whole world about it after knowing.
Type C: Those who happen to know and keep quiet.
Type D: Those who happen to know and want to be part of the show.

Apparently I am Type A and Type C person. I dont go around airing people's dirty linens or try to act smart in such situations. I believe there are many permutations for different people, this is mine. Lol.

Why I blog this? Recently I came to know of a story from one of the local university.

A guy and a girl dated. The girl is a friend of mine. The guy, her bf (now ex), is a high profile figure in the school and hence their relationship was sort of high profile as a result. Soon the guy left for overseas exchange trip and they eventually broke up.

*citing privacy reasons, I had to cut short the story.




The following few days, she was spammed with phone calls from unknown numbers, overseas and local, and msn messages from everywhere "reporting" the "news" to her. They were sending her pictures and stuffs about his alleged flings and "misbehavior". People whom she does not know at all told her "I think you should know about it.". What were they thinking? I dont know.

Now this whole saga became the next hot topic within the school. Everyone is spreading it, everyone is discussing about it.

Whose fault?

Come on. Get a life. This is what I meant by Type B and Type D people. This whole issue has nothing to do with you guys at all. Especially when you do not know the person personally at all. I guess it's the upbringing and practices in the particular school that cultivates this kind of culture within the school. I dont know. Sometimes I feel that people who goes through similar cycles of life and who goes to the same kind of school are equally childish. As in, their maturity level is still way behind people of their age in another country or environment.

I'm not against anyone or anything. Just feel very sad for my friend. Sigh.

Ok, on a happy note, Jay Chou's album is out. I've listened to all the songs liao. I like the emo one. Share with you guys. Be sure to support his album!

周杰伦 - 说了再见

Monday, May 17, 2010

Thank You Guys

Have been a hectic and rollercoaster two weeks for me. So many things happened within such a short period of time. Sorry if I havent been replying to all smses or phone calls, but I know that many people really cared about me. Anyway I made a few phone calls to a few people just now and Esther didnt believe it was me. Lol. I wanted to call many people including Joanna but it was so late already, like 12.30am I dont want to disturb anyone.



So I wanna say a word of thanks to the following people here:

Boss: Thanks for standing by me and supporting me through.

Joseph: Thanks for helping me so much and doing so much for me and giving me all the encouragement.

YP and Yiting: Thanks my two juniors for being so caring and concerned. You guys are so sweet. (",)

Serena, Kadon, Max, 娟姐,Cat 姐: Thanks for the concern and the gifts, esp Cat 姐 and 娟姐 for always spending so much on me.

Mandy: I know you've been very worried. I will take care.

Georgina, Davina, Vivian: Thanks for the smses. Your thoughts are appreciated.

Shirley: Sorry for making you so worried always. Thanks for the concern!

Joanna: Sorry I havent been picking up your calls all the time. I've got your smses and they are so warm and touching everytime! I dont want you to be too worried about me as you have surgery also. Please take care.

Wei: Thanks for always dedicating my songs at YES 93.3 FM and being so supportive all the time. I know you are also very worried for me. I will be ok.

Esther: Thanks for your stars! I'm sorry it made your hand blister. :(

Carol, Yu Jing, Gilberto, Keng Huei, Panda: I know you all are concerned. Thanks for your well wishes. I will press on!

Godma Mrs Wee, God Sis Sarah: I sorry you both were so worried. I will take care.

J.Ai: Thanks for your concern. I know your little baby due this month. Do let me know when she's born! Sure to be a pretty little girl. (",)

Yiming, Jim 老师, Edwin 大哥, Peggy: Thanks for the concern too.

To Hello FM, Campus Rock, the many on Facebook, my friends and the people whom I missed out: THANK YOU SO MUCH! Every message of encouragement means so much to me.

Before I go, I wanna share a song with everyone. This song has been on repeat mode in my ipod for a few days. Nice song. Do listen to it.



Link: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ru0ZEBiiARY

Sunday, May 16, 2010

What Do We Love?

A good quote from the movie: The Hurt Locker.

Staff Sergeant William James: [Speaking to his son] You love playing with that. You love playing with all your stuffed animals. You love your Mommy, your Daddy. You love your pajamas. You love everything, don't ya? Yea. But you know what, buddy? As you get older... some of the things you love might not seem so special anymore. Like your Jack-in-a-Box. Maybe you'll realize it's just a piece of tin and a stuffed animal. And the older you get, the fewer things you really love. And by the time you get to my age, maybe it's only one or two things. With me, I think it's one.

How true? When we were young, we love almost everything we see. From coins, to our toys, to the adults' handphones, to cars passing, to the birds in the sky, to even the lights turning on or the cold air blowing out of the white box. We get fascinated by many things. But as time goes by, we get older, and the things we loved gets lesser and lesser. Things we used to love becomes worthless and not as special or lovable anymore.

Why?

Will I be loved when I'm no longer here?